I’m not one of those people that’s surrounded by friends, that has girls nights, girls holidays etc. I never have been. I have a few really close friends who I simply adore but otherwise I’m happy with my own company and obviously Kelly’s too.
Recently i’ve let it get me down, I’ve made comparisons to people I follow on twitter and instagram ( when i eventually see people’s pics! booooooo instagram!) – jetting off on holiday with friends and just having Girl Time.
SO I did it. I’ve invested into girl time. Now let me just explain why this is also a big deal…in a straight relationship you would have girls nights, nights where the bf’s go out, etc. In gay relationships we are all women! yes i know, bloody obvious that bit! But meaning that girl time normally involves everyone and you can’t really just have a good old natter with your bestie!
About 2 weeks ago I toddled off to the Intu Shopping Centres Awards night with my best friend Lucy and we had a ball! It was a lovely excuse to get dressed up, drink a little too much and dance the night away!
Since then, I’ve left my job! Unfortunately Kelly was away which called for a night of pizza, sweets, brow tinting and general giggles!
I don’t do girl time on a regular basis, and I don’t have a ton of group whatsap messages going on, but I do have some good solid friendships that will last me my entire lifetime.
What are your friendships like? Are you surrounded or just a select few??
I might not have a ton of friends but I wouldn’t swap mine for the world <3